backport: merge bitcoin#22689, #23381, #22674, #23804, #24310, #24537, #24582, #24404, #25013, #25029, #25254, #25388 (mempool backports)

backport: merge bitcoin#22689, #23381, #22674, #23804, #24310, #24537, #24582, #24404, #25013, #25029, #25254, #25388 (mempool backports) #7325