use command files for tools that support it

> Long term I do think think it'd be better to use [command files](https://learn.microsoft.com/en-us/cpp/build/reference/running-lib?view=msvc-170#lib-command-files) for tools that support it rather than batching arguments like this. But that's a bigger change.

_Originally posted by @ChrisDenton in https://github.com/rust-lang/cc-rs/pull/1689#issuecomment-4058333904